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Improve Your Communication Skills with Sgt. Kerry Mensior

Communication, conflict resolution, and decision-making is important for everyone. One of the people I know who is best at sharing top lessons & tips on these crucial skill-sets is my great friend and retired Police Sergeant Kerry Mensior. Kerry’s “Ninja Communication” & conflict resolution tips will make anyone a more effective communicator, regardless of one’s role, position, or occupation.

Kerry’s message is strong, clear, and from the heart. In today’s episode, you will receive…

  • Kerry’s top lessons learned as a police officer and how that helps him teach “communication” today.
  • The hardest thing about being in law enforcement these days.
  • How to rebuild trust between police officers and the community.
  • The most effective ways to communicate when in conflict.
  • How “Tomorrow’s Police Officer” is helping current & future cops be GREAT police officers.
  • How & why having a huge heart and loving soul should drive any of us who have a divine purpose, regardless of career.

You will not only hear a ton of wisdom in today’s IMPACT Show, you will feel the heart & soul of a man who truly cares. Additionally, Kerry and his wife Diane Halfman have generously given back to the Fitness Quest 10 team this past December with $2,500 in scholarship money for the staff to be used for continuing education.

Enjoy today’s show and please share it with your friends, family, colleagues, and teammates to help “communicate” the IMPACT gospel with them. And please share it on your social media to further spread the good word.

Social Media:

IG: @ToddDurkin @tomorrowspoliceofficer
FB: @ToddDurkinFQ10 
Kerry’s FB: https://www.facebook.com/TomorrowsPoliceOfficer/

More on the episode:

3:10 – Tomorrow’s Police Officer
30 Year Law Enforcement Veteran and founder of Tomorrows Police Officer

5:15 – Force for Good
Kerry and wife Diane Halfman donated $2,500 in scholarships to the FQ10 team.
Inspired by Diane’s podcast show “Live Your SPA Life” (S – Seek, P – Power, A – Always)

10:29 – Todd gets “arrested” on his Birthday! 
Kerry is quite the jokester.

14:00 – 72 days underwater in a submarine with the best chefs in the Navy!
Submarine Service, Firefighter, EMT, SDPD 

20:33 – Top Lessons learned as a cop
#1. Understanding that there is a perspective
#2. Listen for keywords and ask to tell  me more
#3. Listen without judgment

28:45 – Conflict Resolution – SALT 
S – Stop and pause
A – Active 
L – Listening
T – Take Responsibility

39:50 – The easy stuff is hard, and the hard stuff is easy.

42:00 – Undercover Detective saving an 8-year-old girl!
Kerry shares about his favorite role.

46:25 – Rebuilding the trust.
We need great cops!  

55:00 – Communication mastery
Follow Kerry and get coached! https://www.tomorrowspoliceofficer.com/

58:50 – Make a difference in the world.
“In my walks, every man I meet is my superior in some way, and in that, I learned from him” – Ralph Waldo Emerson 

About Kerry Mensior: 

A 30-year law enforcement veteran, Kerry is the consummate First Responder. 

He spent nine years in the US Navy Submarine Service, is a former Firefighter, current EMT, and recently retired as a Police Sergeant.  

As the Founder of Tomorrow’s Police Officer, he helps people get hired as Law Enforcement Officers and helps current Law Enforcement Officers learn critical communication and tactical skills in Conflict Resolution De-Escalation.

An international speaker, a best-selling author, and sought-after Communication Mastery trainer, Kerry teaches you Ninja Communication Skills that are Easy to Understand, 

Easy to Remember and even Easier to Implement!

Follow Kerry:

IG: @tomorrowspoliceofficer
FB: https://www.facebook.com/TomorrowsPoliceOfficer/
Website: www.tomorrowspoliceofficer.com

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